Friday, October 25, 2013

Deaf Ministry Interview


I was asked to give an interview today concerning

the Deaf Ministry at our Church. 

The Interviewer is currently a Baptist seminary student doing a research project on special needs ministries.  She  came across an article about our church having a deaf ministry. This immediately grabbed her attention because she is certified in ASL and loves the deaf culture.  I asked her if the Interview could be done over email. She agreed, so now I can share with you her questions and my answers.    I trust the LORD will use this to challenge your own thinking about Deaf Ministry.


What all does your deaf ministry entail?  
 Most of our congregation would say, My involvement in deaf ministry entails teaching a Deaf Sunday school class, interpreting the entire morning service, interpreting the entire evening service and, interpreting half the session on Wednesday night and teaching Deaf Bible class the other half. 
Of course you know that each of the above requires many hours of preparation so that I am prepared in my heart to share God's Word and lead them in Praises to God. 
It also means I am a phone call away, a text away or a visit away for any of them.  I interpret outside the Church as well as inside the Church. I interpret weddings and funerals along side my husband, who is the Pastor.  That means I am available for Doctor appointments, hospitalization, job interviews, etc.   I counsel if and when necessary also.  It requires that I follow strict confidentiality outside of the church, but have taught them we are FAMILY in the Church so often talk about issues as they come up.  They practice problem solving and learn to apply Scripture to their everyday life. 
I try and teach our congregation sign language, as well as deaf culture, via a song most every month.  Our deaf congregation is very active, although none are church members....yet.  We often have deaf men take up the offering.   Deaf provide special music.  We have a Deaf person sign a Bible verse or two every Sunday that goes along with the hymn we just sang.  The deaf ministry entered a Christmas float last year, and hopes to do that again this year.  OH and the Deaf want their children to learn proper sign, so they stand by me and I call them my "junior interpreters".  They  have gotten ALOT better in their signing and confidence...and the parents BEAM with pride.

 

How did your Deaf ministry begin?

Soon after taking the Church in Sebring, I walked into a store and I saw hands flying everywhere.  I entered their conversation, introduced myself, etc.  LATER as I went thru a deaf man's line, he THANKED me for "saving him" from the Jehovah Witnesses who were trying to FORCE him to go to their special meetings.  He said when I came up, they thought I was a new possible convert and they turned their attention to me.  I asked him where he went to Church.  He said, he and his wife go once in a while to a deaf church in Orlando.   I told him that was great, but if he ever wanted to attend a local church (when did not have the gas etc) that I would be happy to interpret for he and his wife.  I explained my husband has just taken a small church and gave him the name and directions.  The conversation was short and sweet as we were at the check out counter.

FOURTEEN MONTHS later he and his wife walked into our church...they sat in the back and looked around....not seeing me.  He tapped the lady ahead of him and said  "Where is Bonnie?"   She went back to where I was teaching the children.   I have been interpreting almost every week since that time.   This particular man, and his wife, have recently moved to New York.

GOD started our Deaf Ministry.  I was simply willing and available.

 

What are some of the challenges you face in your ministry and how do you overcome those challenges? 

 

There are challenges in every ministry, for they all involve people with different personalities, expectations and a variety of spiritual understanding.  
 
 The Deaf ministry here in FL is different because not only are they deaf, but they are from various countries.  A few speak several languages! So our deaf congregational signs vary and it is fun for me to learn and remember the various signs. 
 
They also vary in educational backgrounds.  Some went to Deaf school and are fluent in ASL, some were mainstreamed or in segregated rooms for the Deaf or Hearing Challenged.  Some speak fluent ASL (a language of its own), some use a relaxed form of  signed English, and some combine the two by using classifiers but still English structure (I call that pidgin).  Some are MUTE, some speak rather clearly, some speak loud and some hard to understand.  My philosophy is: I usually sign according to who is watching me the most!  :)  I change back and forth during a sermon depending on their attention, this also helps everyone to be able to understand at their level without being overwhelmed. 
My greatest challenge is always to understand them when they sign.  Because I personally had not met another hearing signer for FIVE years after I learned to sign, I had no clue that I was suppose to voice proper English while I signed.  This is still my greatest struggle because although I understand them most of the time, it is often hard for me to find appropriate English words in real time.  But God is faithful to help me.   We have a segment in our Sunday morning Service where the people can raise their hands and give a Praise report or share a prayer request.   STILL...after all these years (learned it in middle school and am now 62) my heart still races when I see one of their hands in the air. Every Sunday a hand (or five hands)....will go up in the air!   IT has been very stretching for me and I am grateful for the exercise of my weakness.  SILLY.....because God is faithful!

One challenge we are working on:  When a deaf person rises their hand to share in the front row, the deaf person in the fourth row cannot see what they are saying because I AM VOICING, not signing.   SO the deaf suggested that when a deaf person raises their hand, another deaf person will come stand my me.  He/she will copy the deaf person's signs so that all the deaf can understand, and then I am free to VOICE for the hearing.  So far this seems to be working well.

How do you feel the church in general respond to those who are deaf? 


When the deaf ministry first started, the attendance of deaf was not every service or every week, so we took opportunities to teach the hearing people about deaf culture and language, etc.  I believe this church is AMAZING with the deaf!   I have been in MANY deaf ministries in my life, and this church FAR exceeds in their love and acceptance.  HUGS are freely given across the aisle. {The Deaf can sit anywhere they want, but they CHOOSE to sit together on the side of the Church where I stand.} Our deaf HELP out our hearing because our hearing is mostly a senior citizen congregation, and the deaf are all young families. So the Deaf do a lot of home projects for our hearing. At Potlucks (almost every Sunday) the Deaf are in the kitchen washing the silverware and pots, or sweeping the floor! I applaud the hearing congregation as often as I can for the way they love the deaf people. I applaud the deaf congregation as often as I can for the way they love the hearing people. And in all of that LOVE, God is pleased, honored and glorified!


 

What are some things that you have learned through this ministry that you would find important to someone else starting a ministry similar to yours? 
Be sure you love deaf people MORE than their language.  Be sure to LOVE the people before Church, during Church and after Church.   Find creative ways to involve the Deaf in the church, not just come, sit and exit.   Always remember you are using their language.  We are honored to be able to use their language.  When they correct your sign, THANK THEM, and try your best to adapt to their sign, even if your sign seems to make more sense.  Be sure to pray for each of them....OFTEN.  The ministry is the LORD's......it is just an honor to be called of God, equipped by God, to share God's Word with deaf people. Always be a student of the WORD OF GOD and a student of SIGN LANGUAGE. Be Real with them. Love them, and watch God work!!!

 

What is the biggest joy or blessing that you receive by working in this ministry? 

 

To watch them Grow in the Lord.  Recently while sharing how we should not be unequally yoked in marriage, a lady's eyes welled up with tears and she said "I did not know that!".  I was able to tell her that God knew she was not aware of that, and HE protected her by having her husband's heart bow to Jesus.  Now they are a beautiful Christian couple.   Then she said:  "But now that I know, I need to teach this to my children."   Now there is some spiritual growth!   There has been many similar blessings lately that keep my hands shouting AMEN, instead of feeling fatigue.

Another blessing is the JOY of standing next to my husband who is the Pastor.  I have enjoyed watching him grow in the Lord over the years, and it is a thrill to be at his side, to serve God as a Team, in ministry.

HA-HA...another JOY is that this Baptist lady can be as charismatic as she wants to be and no one criticizes her joyful movements, or thinks they are inappropriate,  because they just think it is the way all Interpreters sign! Sign language has deepened my worship and I will be forever grateful to God for teaching me this language.  Sign language is the avenue where all that is within me, can be seen on the outside!  I am ever grateful.

 

 

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Walk to End Alzheimer's

The terrible disease,  called 
ALZHEIMERS, has touched my life via several dear friends in our Church.  Breaks my heart to watch them change before my eyes.  Equally breaks my heart to know the extra hard load their spouses have to care for them daily as they also watch their loved one change before their eyes.   What heartache.  

As a result of these dear folks, I was recently doing an internet search on the disease and learned that our city was having a "Walk to End Alzheimers".   With only three days before the event I was not sure I could join it, but found out that I could!   I knew I would not be able to bring in much revenue, but WANTED to represent these dear loved ones in some kind of ACTION.  So I did walk....and was thrilled to raise $70.00 towards the study of Alzheimers in those three days.

Several people mentioned they would be VERY interested in walking WITH me next year, so hopefully we can have a TEAM to walk on behalf of the many precious loved ones suffering from this disease.

Because I was an "individual" walking, I decided to bring along my "Granny Puppet".  Granny has gotten lots of hugs from nursing home residents as our Church group called "Hands of Faith" ministers in various facilities in the winter.  "Granny" indeed  drew attention and allowed me to share about our church ministry to bring JOY and JESUS to those struggling with old age and Alzheimers in particular.

I try to spend as much time as I can with a lady friend who struggles with memory loss.  I am aware how this allows her husband to do some much needed tasks that he otherwise has a hard time accomplishing.  Two weeks ago I tried to play CHECKERS with my friend, but she truly had NO CLUE how to play any longer, and yet she used to beat her every competitor.   This week I tried a new game:  MEMORY, and she surprised me how very well she could play that game!   I was elated! 

 As I was thinking about this couple, the radio was playing the song : "I WILL BE HERE"....and I am thinking this Steven Curtis Chapman song could be the theme song of my friend's spouse.  Day after day he graciously sees past the disease to the woman he has always cherished and will until "Death us do part."  

He truly lays down his life. 
He truly loves her like Christ loves the Church. 

[Lord Jesus, I ask YOU to bless all the caregivers who do their best day after day to care for their loved one who is changing and disappearing before their eyes everyday.   Lord Jesus,  please help people to find a cure for this disease that steals so much from us.  Lord Jesus, raise up young people who will love their spouses to the end, in sickness and in health, for better or for worse, etc.  Lord Jesus, help Your Church to truly LOVE people......all people.  Give us Your heart, Lord. Thank You, Lord]


"I Will Be Here"
Tomorrow morning if you wake up
And the sun does not appear
I... I will be here
If in the dark we lose sight of love
Hold my hand and have no fear
'Cause I... I will be here

I will be here
When you feel like being quiet
When you need to speak your mind
I will listen
And I will be here
When the laughter turns to crying
Through the winning, losing and trying
We'll be together
'Cause I will be here

Tomorrow morning if you wake up
And the future is unclear
I... I will be here
As sure as seasons are made for change
Our lifetimes are made for years
So I... I will be here

I will be here
And you can cry on my shoulder
When the mirror tells us we're older
I will hold you
And I will be here
To watch you grow in beauty
And tell you all the things you are to me
I will be here, hmmm

I will be true to the promise I have made
To you and to the One who gave you to me

And just as sure as seasons are made for change
Our lifetimes are made for years
So I... I will be here
We'll be together
I will be here


Thursday, October 3, 2013

DESPERATE!!!

I must admit: 

I am not the world's best cook....yet I do not like to waste things....oh and we are vegetarian.  


SO here was my issue:  

My sister told me about a bean veggie soup mix to buy that had no sodium  in it and she and her husband had really liked it.   So while at the store, I phoned her for further guidance to be sure I was getting the RIGHT soup mix.  She said she had added more water than it had called for and even added a few cut up potatoes and carrots to make it more hearty.

SO....I emptied the soup mix into the crockpot, put in a lot of water and added some cut up potatoes.  The directions said to bring to a boil, then to let it simmer for some time.   SO I put it on high for about an hour and then on low.   SOUNDS GOOD, HEY?

Well when it was time to eat, I had the shock of my life!

The crockpot was not only full to the top but DENSE, there was no more liquid to be seen! 
So much for the SOUP idea.  I called my sister and she informed me she only used a CUP of the soup mix where I had put in the entire bag!  ( I KNOW, Bonnie read the directions!)

I refuse to just sit and condemn myself which my insides were standing up wanting to do.  I told those condemning inner voices to "SIT DOWN, that all would be well".

I set a pretty table and served this to my hungry hubby along with fresh rolls.  I even confessed and told him it was suppose to be soup.  He said,  "I would rather eat supper with a fork, than a spoon anyway."  (I married a great guy, hey?)  He proceeded to tell me he REALLY  LIKED it!    It was all I could do to get it down.  It looked like mush to me.  But he truly ate a couple of helpings and said again, "I really did like it."

WELL.....there was quite abit left over.   What do I do now?


I took the mushy yucky, BUT HEALTHY bean concoction and spooned them into  two small meatloaf pans.  One went into the frig and one into the freezer.

TONIGHT we have a guest for supper.   YEP.....I decided on the new meat-less dish!


I took the solid block of "whatever" out of the fridge and cut it up like slices of "meatloaf".  I put in a iron skillet and covered the whole thing with mushroom soup (water added).  Then I let is simmer while the baked potatoes and mixed veggies were cooking.  

I cautiously (but confidently - sort of)  put all of this on our table before my hubby, myself and our guest.    I even told our guest the story.

My hubby and our guest devoured the entire pan.  They said they both LOVED IT!   I graciously let them enjoy the whole pan, while I chose to eat all the other items. lol

I am not sure if I made a fabulous dish from a big blunder, or if these two men are just extra  sweet.

Bet you all want to come to dinner now at my house, hey?  

 

But I do know that God can take a blunder of a person and create a miracle,
and I am made in HIS image!